Development
Working Your Net To Find Your Next Job
Suggestions for Continuous Networking
Networking is not just for the unemployed. The
social contract between organization and employee
continues to be rewritten. Can an employee expect
lifetime employment? Probably not. Will you want to
work at the same organization for your entire
career? Maybe, maybe not. Can an employee expect his
or her manager to constantly be on the look out for
the ideal job for you. I don't think so.
Here's what may be happening to you at work. You
look around at your colleagues. One values a
balanced quality of life, he arrives at 9am and
leaves at 5pm. Another colleague, just got promoted
and seems to work on all of your manager's pet
projects, you know the projects with high visibility
and obviously high reward.
And you, you come to work every day, trying to add
the most value that you can. You don't rock the
boat, yet do consistently bring creative ideas to
the table. But where will this all lead? Are you the
first choice for the next big project? The next one
to be promoted? The one on the team to receive the
best bonus? Assessing where you are on the team,
your manager seems to view you in the middle of the
pack. Is this good enough for you at this point in
your career?
Maybe it's time to get out of your comfort zone and
start networking, both inside and outside for your
next position.
So what can you do to break the denial of “I'll
always have a job here” and proactively continue to
expand and broaden your network so “you'll always
have the job and life you want”?
Herminia Ibarra, in her book, Working Identity:
Unconventional Strategies for Reinventing Your
Career, defines networking as “a set of
relationships critical to your ability to get things
done and develop professionally according to your
goals”. Below are suggestions to help you determine
your next career move and then using your network to
achieve your goals.
- Make the time - How many times
have you said I have to start looking, only to get
caught up in the latest deadline at work. Set
aside a couple of minutes each week to network.
Maybe it's making one call or having one lunch.
Control your destiny and make you the priority.
- Get strategic - “You can't be
all things to all people” certainly works here.
Find your focus and then identify your career
goal. There are a lot of questions for you to
begin to sort out. Will you move up (to a larger
position in the same company), move out (leave the
organization for a new one) or move over (to a
complete life style change - consulting,
retirement or realizing your dream in a completely
different job). Be realistic about what you want,
where your passions lie, what your true skills
are, where you want to live, how much you want to
be rewarded for what you do.
- Get busy - Once you have your
focus, identify those who can help you get where
you want to go. Think of a pyramid, with your best
friends and family at top (hot calls), your
colleagues and peers in the middle of the pyramid
(warm calls) and the bottom of the triangle is
where the cold calls are that need to be made.
Call the hot and warm calls first to build your
confidence but have your story ready first though.
Think about how you will involve you manager or
mentor in this process - will they help or hurt?
- Get your story crisp - what
will you say to show your passion? What will you
say when people ask why you need a change? How
concise are you in positioning yourself for the
future? What do you have in common with the person
you are talking to so that there is a personal or
professional connection? Have you practiced in
front of someone who will give you feedback on
whether you are making your point? If you are
still working, how do you ensure that this
conversation remains confidential?
- There are really only two degrees of
separation - Talk to everyone you know
and those you don't. Always have your business
card, bio or resume and marketing plan with you.
Use every day chance occurrences to network.
And…always ask others to help market you as well.
- Get organized - get your
infrastructure in place. Will you use your cell
phone number for replies? How will you track when
you called someone and when you need to get back
to him or her (i.e., six months from now)? Will
you call people or send emails? Which will get you
a better response?
- Know yourself - Take IQ or
personality tests (there are many on-line) or
speak to a career coach to learn more about
yourself. Constantly ask those that you trust to
provide you with feedback. Learn where your blind
spots are. Listen to the feedback without getting
defensive. Are people giving you feedback that
aligns to what you think about yourself? Is there
a gap in people's perceptions of you versus your
reality? If so, what will you do about it?
- It's not about you - Remember
the person you are talking may hold the key to
opening the door of opportunity for you. Think
about their needs and how can you add value to
them. How can you differentiate yourself from
others? Be aware, there is search time and real
time. People are really busy nowadays. They will
call you when they are ready to, not when you are
ready for them to call. Maybe they won't even
return your call.
- Think creatively - besides
friends and family, what else can you do? Read
business magazines and newspapers. Know when want
ads are listed. Identify the journals and
magazines that provide you with lists, i.e.,
Fortune comes out with their list of “Best places
to Work”, etc. Then go on the websites of the
companies that are listed and determine if there
are any positions in the company that are right
for you.
- Use the net, but don't get caught up in
it - most people still get jobs the old
fashioned way, by networking. The Internet is a
technology tool not a magic wand. The net can help
you expand your network though. Check out Websites
from your religious affiliation, alumni websites
of your universities, high schools, etc.
- Get involved - volunteer your
time both in your current firm and the community,
join and present at networking groups for your
industry, attend business meetings.
- Personalize the search - Look
for ways to get a champion who will help you in
each organization you want to work for. Just like
you want a champion when you are inside to
succeed, you need a champion on the inside of the
new organization you want to work in who will open
doors when you are trying to get in from the
outside.
- But don't take it personally.
People will say yes, but mean no. People will say
they will get back to you, but they won't. It's
not about you.
- Keep your sense of humor, stay positive
and be hopeful. Yet balance this with
the recognition when you are using hope as a way
not dealing with the reality of the situation.
Sometimes you need to reframe or transform
yourself instead of continuing to bang your head
against many walls.
- Follow up. Say thank you.
Differentiate yourself by sending an actual letter
in the mail. Provide an article you have written
or some research you have done.
And after you land the job you were after or
transform your life, remember two things.
- continue to network, it's better to build
relationships before you need them, keep in touch
and
- open the doors for others that come knocking.